Her viral speech touched on the importance of representation, and gratitude for her LGBTQIA family, and this: “To my girlfriend Alana, I love you more than life itself.” I froze. A statement was shared with E! Their breakup broke my heart. This was the first time I had seen such proud, queer Black love, and I immediately became invested in this relationship. I held Lena’s speech, and particularly her declaration of love for Alana, close even as I went through my own breakup, thinking that one day I’d be able to live such a loud and proud life. Show full articles without "Continue Reading" button for {0} hours. How Lena Waithe Became the Voice of Her Generation, two months after announcing they secretly married. Lena Waithe and Alana Mayo have decided to go their separate ways, E! We’ve been together ever since.”. ", Waithe said getting married at the courthouse was Mayo's idea "as all good things are. Lena recalled in an appearance on The Breakfast Club that she and Alana met at a business meeting. Then, in 2019 I was on a YouTube spiral and came across Lena being interviewed by John Legend. News has exclusively learned. He said to her, “I’m going to call you wife now because you secretly just got married.” My heart skipped a beat. During an appearance on the Wendy Williams show, while discussing sexual fluidity, Waithe said that Mayo had never been with a woman before her, and their relationship was more spontaneous than not. It was different. Two months after revealing they secretly married, Lena Waithe and Alana Mayo have split. Like us on Facebook to see similar stories, Donations have surged to a 'scam' political group that claims to help police officers, America's most successful employee-owned companies. Your source for entertainment news, celebrities, celeb news, and ​celebrity gossip. "We have nothing but support for one another and ask that you respect our privacy during this time.". One day, we went to have drinks and something just clicked. A source claims the couple’s problems have been around for a while. All Of The Times Lena Waithe And Her Fiancée Alana Mayo Made Us Fall In Love With Their Love. Soulmates come in many forms — you can't be afraid to try things out. The couple announced their engagement in 2017, and had been dating for quite some time before taking their romance to the next level. It made me wonder if queer, Black love truly does exist. “There was no nothing going on there at that point. But more importantly, it showed me the danger of putting gay relationships on a pedestal, it showed me that maybe we were susceptible to the same thing heterosexuals couples fall victim to — cheating, lies, plain old “irreconcilable differences,” and even divorce. "We didn't make any announcements or a big... We went to San Francisco. News. Lena Waithe and Alana Mayo have decided to go their separate ways, E! Back in November, the Emmy winner told Ellen DeGeneres and John Legend on The Ellen DeGeneres Show that she and Mayo tied the knot in a private ceremony at a San Francisco courthouse. We went to the courthouse," Lena explained at the time. Did this Black woman just nonchalantly say she was gay and thank her girlfriend on the biggest stage in television? '", Waithe is best known for her roles in the series "Master of None" and the film "Ready Player One" as well as being the creator of the Showtime series "The Chi" and writer of the film "Queen & Slim.". Lena and Alana reminded me that time doesn’t create a stronger bond, but feelings do. So, I did what most millennials do — I Googled Lena Waithe. But my moment wouldn’t make the news because Black, queer love wouldn’t be headline, my work would. Lena Waithe and her wife Alana Mayo made a joint statement to E! In September 2017,  I watched the Primetime Emmy Awards, like I did almost every year before that. I was very professional,” Waithe told the Breakfast Club. In true cliché lesbian fashion, Lena told Alana she was madly in love with her on their fourth date. ", "[It was] her idea, as all good things are," she continued. They showed me the complexities of attraction and how love sometimes surprises you. Two months after revealing that she and her longtime love secretly married, Lena Waithe and her wife Alana Mayo announced Thursday that they are calling it quits. "After careful thought and consideration, we have decided to part ways," a joint statement from their reps read. Jim Parsons and Iain Armitage performed the obligatory joke before announcing the winners for Outstanding Writing For A Comedy Series: Aziz Ansari and Lena Waithe for Master of None’s “Thanksgiving” episode, which was partially based on Waithe’s own personal experience coming out to her mother. The news comes two months after announcing they secretly married. She knew they were soul mates — so why wait? Lena was glowing after her secret wedding in San Francisco, which took place right in front of Harvey Milk’s bust. So, not only is Black, queer love possible, it dawned on me that it can lead to marriage. But a seed was planted. In 2017, she became the first black woman to win the Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Writing for a Comedy Series for writing "Master of None's" "Thanksgiving" episode. "And she was just driving and she saw the courthouse and she said, ‘We should get married there.' The significance of getting married in San Francisco City Hall and in front of Milk’s monument seemed like a full-circle moment for LGBTQ rights. Check out the hottest fashion, photos, movies and TV shows! This is what Harvey Milk fought for and it was the first time I thought it could be a reality for me. Microsoft may earn an Affiliate Commission if you purchase something through recommended links in this article. "And I said, 'Cool, I'm down. I’m pretty sure the whole world already knew she was queer, but this was news to my gay Black self. The certainty of that connection … granted, it often fizzled in my case, but I am always willing to pursue it. Lena Waithe and Alana Mayo's Divorce Hit Me Like a Bus. News has exclusively learned. We went to the courthouse. “We just kept bumping into each other and all that kind of stuff. Updated 10:38 AM ET, Thu January 23, 2020. Flash forward a few months, I came across a headline, where I get all my news … Twitter. In September 2017, I watched the Primetime Emmy Awards, like I did almost every year before that. (CNN)Two months after revealing they secretly married, Lena Waithe and Alana Mayo have split. The longtime couple announced their engagement in 2017. Lena Waithe and Alana Mayo's Divorce Hit Me Like a Bus. Breakups That Broke Us is a weekly column about the failed celebrity relationships that convinced us love is dead. Entertainment Television, LLC A Division of NBCUniversal. “Lena Waithe and Wife Alana Mayo Split after 2 Months of Marriage.” I was gutted because of what their marriage represented for me, and for what I felt I had lost. Although they were both in entertainment — Lena a writer, actor, and producer, and Alana, a creative executive — there were no flashing lights or cosmic connections when they first met. I instantly felt vindicated for the times I have leapt into a relationship because of that feeling. All rights reserved. RELATED: Alanis Morissette and Ryan Reynolds's Split Ruined My Hopes of Getting the Hot Guy. ", "And she was just driving and she saw the courthouse and she said, 'We should get married there,"" Waithe said. The good, and even the bad. © 2020 E! African American super producer Lena Waithe just announced that she and her wife of less than one year are separating. Alana Mayo, left, and Lena Waithe attend the 76th Annual Golden Globe Awards at The Beverly Hilton Hotel on January 6, 2019, in Beverly Hills, California. And I said, ‘Cool, I'm down.'". Now there is a rumored reason why the marriage ended so quickly. "We went to San Francisco. "Got married right in front of [late gay rights activist and politician] Harvey Milk's bust. Marriage, that end-all, be-all, that had been unattainable to most of the LGBTQ community for so long. "After careful thought and consideration, we have decided to part ways," they said in a joint statement from their reps. "We have nothing but support for one another and ask that you respect our privacy during this time.". In November Waithe revealed on "The Ellen DeGeneres Show" that she and Mayo, who has served as the head of production and development at Michael B. Jordan's production company Outlier Society, had secretly married. Lena Waithe and Alana Mayo | Jeff Kravitz/FilmMagic. They came up to the stage and Aziz gave the mic, deservedly, to Lena. A rep for Waithe confirmed to CNN that the E! And according to a new report, the split comes after Lena was allegedly caught cheating. "We didn't make any announcements," Waithe said at the time. report is accurate. News about their decision to split. Their relationship showed me that queer couples can really, truly have it all.

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